Yesterday was a special day. Brae's birthfather's side of the family (his paternal biological mother, aunt, and grandma) drove up from the Roseburg area to the Zoo to see Brae for the first time since he was born. Our case worker was also there. I was praying the whole way there that this visit would be a blessing. And it was. It was a little awkward at first, but because we all knew it was important, we tried our best to ease some of the anxiety with simple small talk. About a half hour in, I think we all felt more comfortable. They were so grateful to see him and couldn't stop talking about him, taking their eyes off him, and of course, holding him and cradling him. You could tell it meant the world to them. We walked around the zoo for about 2 hours and, at the end, they gave Brae a TON of birthday gifts that he will open at his birthday party. They also gave me and Tygh some very cool ceramic coffee mugs that say 'Proud Papa,' and 'Proud Mama.' We are indeed! As we left, they said how blessed Brae is to have us as parents. That was touching. They also said that each round of pictures and letters we send to them is like opening a Christmas present and has really helped them cope.
We know Brae won't remember this visit, but we think it was very important and are so grateful it happened and that we have pictures. One thing is for sure: this boy will never feel unloved, unwanted, or abandoned. He was handed over out of love and as a very special gift. It didn't make the decision any harder on the birthfamily, but we believe this visit confirmed to them that it really was in Brae's best interest. We hope one day that Brae is able to say to them, 'Thank you.' Because, for our part, we certainly are eternally grateful.
